RIGHT/WRONG

Apologising does not mean you are wrong and others are right. It means you respect your relationship more than more than your ego. Making others wrong hurts their ego and even if they realise that they are in the wrong, they will be reluctant to admit it. They will find justifications for their action or words. This will only sour relationships. Majority of us do not enjoy being told that we are wrong. One approach that will work for sure is to give up being right. Mind you by doing this you are not making yourself wrong. Its like a situation where heads you win and tails the other person looses. When the atmosphere softens you can always communicate and clear your stand. This in most cases will see you through. In the process no love is lost and relationships also do not weaken. So next time you are on the verge of an argument, follow this simple rule and notice the difference.